I put together this guide for making scary decisions to help me and you.
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I put together this guide for making scary decisions to help me and you.
Growing up an only child, I always wanted a Clifford the Big Red Dog-sized canine companion. Sadly, despite my best efforts, I entered into adulthood having unsuccessfully petitioned my mother for such a beast. At 26, however, I became the owner of a 5-foot-10-inch, 240-pound human pup by the name of Bubby.
When we allow these people to justify or reword their rapes as something other, it teaches other rapists how to rape and get away with. It teaches them that all they have to do is be good at PR and they can rape with impunity.
I have always found beer goggles - the way people become more attractive to you the more you drink - to be kind of cool. I mean, you got laid and it was probably awesome - if not sightly awkward. Even still, awkward drunks sex is usually better than no sex at all. If nothing else, you got to pass out drunk - and possibly throw up - in someone else's house.
Although I’ve always considered myself to be closer to vanilla on the kink spectrum, I’ve recently found myself being one kinky motherfucker. It started with a little roughness and led into a sadistic awakening. Now, a little puppy play has led into a budding full-time D/s relationship, and I am super excited.
In relationships, as in life, trust is incredibly important. No matter the topic, you should be able to trust that what your partner says is gold.
Even still, when it comes to HIV status, it’s better to trust but verify.
Sometimes I make very good decisions.
Recently I made the decision to make a three-way happen with my partner and a third. Considering we’ve now had three successful play sessions with three different men, it looks like this was a very good decision.
Every relationship probably will have moments when you just want to slap the shit out of each other.
While it’s important not to non-consensually slap the shit out of each other, it’s also important to resolve the problem. This is where our kindergarten lessons on conflict resolution come in handy: Use your words and talk that shit out.
When I first met Bubby, the feelings I had toward him were so intense they scared me a little. As time has rolled on, though, those feelings have mellowed to a great degree. These days I’m happy to see and be around him, but that crazy wave of lovey feelings is definitely over and that’s ok; new relationship energy doesn’t last forever.
For the past five months, I’ve been seeing a guy who rocks my world. The sex is great, he’s adorable as fuck and we get along famously – most of the time. Even though budding love blinds me sometimes, I know damn well he isn’t “the one.” But that doesn’t say anything at all about our relationship, really.
