5 essential tips for better blow jobs
Learning how to give life altering blow jobs is not as complicated as some people think. As an avid dick sucker, I can tell you that it’s actually pretty simple to make you guy’s toes curl and body convulse with pleasure. It’s so simple that with just these six basic tips for giving better blow jobs and a bit of practice, you’ll have your guy wanting to put a ring on it.
Love sucking dick
It seems like a dumb idea to tell you to love something. But you do things you love better than those you don’t. If you don’t enjoy having your guy’s cock in your mouth, he can probably tell. Knowing you’re not having fun is a big turn off for a lot of guys.
If there’s something particular you don’t enjoy (i.e. taste, gag reflex, pubes or smell), you can address that. Tell your guy to trim his pubes and take a shower. Good hygiene should make his crotch a lot more inviting for your face. For gag reflex problems, you check out the next tip.
If there’s something non-specific (i.e. shame or religious issues) that’s something you’ll have to work through.
Control your gag reflex
When choking on a piece of food, having a gag reflex will save your life. When choking on a cock, it can cause a very unfortunate end to an otherwise pleasure face fucking session.
The only way to overcome a gag reflex is practice. I find the fingers and other hard objects make really violent gag reactions. So, practicing on a spongy and pliable object, such as a hard cock, may be your best bet.
While sucking, try to take the dick as far in your mouth as you can and hold it there. Holding it still will allow you to figure out how to manually stop the reflex. With practice, you’ll be able to minimize or completely stop the reflex at will.
Wetter is better
When it comes to putting cock in any orifice, wet > dry. This is why control of the gag reflex is so important. You don’t want to throw up all over your guy’s dick. But you do want the rush of super slippery saliva and mucus that happens when you have something in your throat.
Some people recommend just using lube but they usually taste gross. In all my slutty travels, I have never come across a lube that actually tastes good, without causing a sticky mess. Plus, you don’t want hide that authentic dick taste. If deep throating dick proves to be a big challenge for you, a thick, store brand, water-based lube will improve you guy’s pleasure with a minimum amount of gross.
NO TEETH!
Luckily for guys, neither the rectum nor vagina has hard jagged teeth that could cause horrible pain at any moment. Unluckily for guys, the mouth does. When sucking dick, make sure to keep those rough, jagged things away from his throbbing but tender penis. It can be difficult to do, especially when he gets close to orgasm but it’s important to try.
The trick to getting your teeth out the way comes in three parts: keeping your mouth well lubricated to minimize their abrasiveness, stick your tongue out flat to cover your bottom teeth and covering the top teeth with your top lip. It’s a bit like oral origami but you’ll get the hang of it.
Make him pay attention
You may not realize this but when a guy is getting his dick sucked, he often loses the ability to form thoughts. It’s almost like the more you suck, the less their brain functions. If you’re a person who likes settle in for a few hours of casual dick sucking, this probably works out great. But if you’re on a schedule or racing against the impending ache of TMD (aka TMJ), this is not ideal. To make sure your guy is on the road to blowing his load, keep him connected with the action.
The easiest way to keep your guy connected is by having him guide your head up and down with his hand. Not only does it keep him connected but it also gives you an easy guide to how he wants to be sucked.
Some people don’t like it because they find it uncomfortable or degrading. But I think it’s hot and can really help him enjoy the blow job more. Try a hand on the neck or shoulder if the back of the head just won’t work for you.
If you don’t like that option, then try eye contact. You don’t have to stare at him dead in the eyes for the entirety of the blow job, but glance up periodically with your best fuck me smirk. It lets him know how much you enjoy having his dick in your mouth. It is also incredibly hot to watch his face scrunch up in with focused bliss as you masterfully control his joy stick.
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