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Have you heard that oral sex can cause cancer?

Jerome Stuart Nichols
Advice

A study published in early 2011 found an unexpected and unexplained rise in oral cancers that are associated with HPV. When researchers sought to find an answer for their results they found a separate survey, which found a rise in oral sex. Since it is very possible to spread HPV through oral sex many experts concurred with the findings and they were subsequently released to the public.

When media outlets caught wind of these findings, they ran with the story that our wanton oral sex was causing the higher incidents of HPV related oral cancers. Unfortunately, that’s only part of the story.  

How can I make oral sex less risky without nasty ass condoms

How can I make oral sex less risky without nasty ass condoms

Jerome Stuart Nichols
Advice

You probably already covered this but, I enjoy giving oral sex, I’m newly single and feel like a super slut if I just give it to any guy. I want to be able to go down when I want, but I need to know how to be safe about it. How do pleasure guys without my mouth tasting like condoms?

Condoms do have such gross flavor. I completely understand you desire for other options. Fortunately, there are plenty of things you can do to lower your risk of contracting something that doesn’t involve a condom. Before I get into your question, I want to handle the question you didn’t ask.

Dear Sexpert: What Can I Do To Reduce Risk When Having Bareback Sex?

Jerome Stuart Nichols
Advice

Sexpert Dictionary: Bareback (verb) – Sex without a condom. The term is mostly used by gay men. Heterosexuals tend to use the words raw, or natural to describe the same thing.

I’m very glad that you had the forethought to ask for advice on this topic. Too often people think that a condom is the only way to decrease the risk of STI/STD transmission. That is a very dangerous way of thought because if they don’t want to use a condom then they won’t think to take other steps to decrease the amount of risk their taking on.

Can a shemale get a woman pregnant?

Jerome Stuart Nichols
Advice

Before I answer your question, we need to work on your vocabulary. “Shemale” is a term used by porn companies, and professionals in the back pages of alternative newspapers, to describe people who are biologically male but have breast. They achieve the breasts, most commonly, through surgery. There are some who develop them through hormonal treatments, which is typical for pre-operative transgendered people. Both types usually dress and live as women in their daily lives.

Often people find the term “shemale” to be offensive as it points to the exploitation, marginalization and discrimination of transgendered people. However, there are a small number of people who openly describe themselves as “shemales” and embrace the term.

Now, to your question…

What is the best sexual position to please woman?

Jerome Stuart Nichols
Advice

Sex is a lot like Tetris. The whole game is about filling all the different holes and spaces with an array of oddly shaped boxes. Usually, the pieces don’t fit perfectly but you can twist them and shift them to make it work. That’s what most sex is like. Then there are times where we get the perfect pieces and we achieve that allusive 4 line combo. However, fun part is the not knowing which piece if coming next.

Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About: Anal Sex (Part 2)

Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About: Anal Sex (Part 2)

Jerome Stuart Nichols
Advice

 It’s odd how an attempt to answer a ton of questions at once leads to a rush of new questions on the same topic. That’s exactly what happened with last Monday’s “Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Anal Sex” post. It’s not like I’m bitter or anything. I love answering your questions. So here you are, Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Anal Sex Part 2.

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