Do dope deep throat on your dude (or chick) - Let's Talk About Sex #33

People think deep-throating cock is some mystical skill that only some can master. In reality, giving great deep throat blow jobs comes down to: wanting it, knowing what positions works, breathing, lubrication and practice. With the video above and some expanded tips below, we’ve got all the basics you need to know about giving a stellar deep-throat blow job.

Want to deep throat

As with all sex, if there’s no desire, it’s probably not going to happen. If you don’t want to take your guy’s (or girl’s) entire penis in your mouth and down your esophagus, it’s not going to happen. Anxiety can make you throw up, so can deep-throating. It’s best to put nerves someplace else for time being.

Try different cock sucking positions

Not all throats and cocks are made the same. Try a bunch of configurations to see which helps his (or her) dick slide down your throat the easiest. In the beginning, make sure that you have the ultimate control over how far down it goes and with what amount of force. You’ll get more comfortable with it over time and can eventually let him (or her) take control.

Breathe, bitch

People often worry that deep throating will cause them choke or suffocate and die. The problem is that people forget about the nose as a secondary breathing apparatus. With your guy’s (or girl’s) penis tickling your sternum, you won’t be able to breath (thanks epiglottis for keeping me alive and making cock sucking harder) but even to the tonsils and maybe further, you can breathe easy.

Lube helps oral sex, too

If you’re fucking anything, there should probably be lube involved. A water-based lube will help you get started. Once you’ve started caressing his dick with your throat, the natural mucus will be slicker than any lube. If you don’t like the flavor of dick, a flavored water-based lube will help.

Practice makes (deep throating) perfect

With all sexual skills, especially ones that involve doing things your body doesn’t normally do, practice is important. The more you practice, the better you get at stopping your gag reflex, positioning yourself, breathing and overall technique. Plus, you’ll get more comfortable and confident, which always helps.

Blow job risks

Because you’re forcing the penis’ mucus membranes against the mucus membranes in your throat, it’s way easier to catch an STI/STD.  Even sexperts aren’t immune; I caught oral gonorrhea just a few months ago.