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How can I make oral sex less risky without nasty ass condoms

How can I make oral sex less risky without nasty ass condoms

Jerome Stuart Nichols
Advice

You probably already covered this but, I enjoy giving oral sex, I’m newly single and feel like a super slut if I just give it to any guy. I want to be able to go down when I want, but I need to know how to be safe about it. How do pleasure guys without my mouth tasting like condoms?

Condoms do have such gross flavor. I completely understand you desire for other options. Fortunately, there are plenty of things you can do to lower your risk of contracting something that doesn’t involve a condom. Before I get into your question, I want to handle the question you didn’t ask.

Dear Sexpert: What Can I Do To Reduce Risk When Having Bareback Sex?

Jerome Stuart Nichols
Advice

Sexpert Dictionary: Bareback (verb) – Sex without a condom. The term is mostly used by gay men. Heterosexuals tend to use the words raw, or natural to describe the same thing.

I’m very glad that you had the forethought to ask for advice on this topic. Too often people think that a condom is the only way to decrease the risk of STI/STD transmission. That is a very dangerous way of thought because if they don’t want to use a condom then they won’t think to take other steps to decrease the amount of risk their taking on.

Back To School 2010: Storage & Cleaning

Jerome Stuart Nichols
Sexpert Wisdom (Advice), Sexy DIY, Tips & Tricks

Once you have your new toys you need a place to store them. So today we are going to give you some tips and tricks on storage and cleaning for your college life.

Depending on the size of the toys you have many good options.  I like to keep my lube with my paint, it’s about the same size and with the label removed it looks like thickener for acrylic paints. You could also buy some cheap lotion, clean the container and store your lube there. For your toys, one good solution is a mailing tube. If you move in with it most people will assume it’s nothing more than poster storage. The mailing tube option is really good for keeping all of your stuff in there. A tall tube can store lube, condoms, restraints, & toys.

Back off! Don't let people shame you into wearing condoms

Back off! Don't let people shame you into wearing condoms

Jerome Stuart Nichols

 Education is your best option for protecting yourself. The things you learn may be scary but you shouldn’t shy away. The things you learn may confidence building but you shouldn’t be arrogant. STIs are not prejudiced, they do not care who you are. Their mission in life is to procreate and your uninfected tender nubile body is prime real estate for them.